Bullies.. Devils on earth!

Geez >.< I've to write it somewhere cause I'm fed up with it.. It was in my first high school year, but it still hurts me a little bit..

Let's start at the beginning.
I was a random, weird girl that didn't have any friends. I was in a class full with friendclubs and I only knew my cousin, but she has a bff and didn't have time for me. So.. I had to sit next a silly boy who only did rude against me. I hated that time! He did so mean and said that I didn't have any friends O.O Luckily we had to change seats and I came to sit next near a more friendly guy. Half of a school year passed and then it began.. There was a guy. He was non-stop saying my name and I ignored him. Then he suddenly said "Our relation is over!" I asked "Wich relation? Did we even have one?" and after that time he only said mean things like that I was pregnant from him and thet we were going to marry. The whole class thought that it was funny! I was only 12 or 13 and I didn't like school anymore. My mum didn't know that something like this was going on until I came back home, crying. That has some other reasons. I just came back from school and we had to make groups for dancing and really nobody would choose me so the teacher had to put me in a random group. The girls from that group didn't look happy and I felt horrible that time. What was wrong with me? (Geez >.< I'm almost crying now)
An other day at school. I was wearing brightly-coloured green thights, a short and a green-patern shirt. They bullied me the whole day because of my thights! Since that day I'm afraid of wearing brightly-coloured clothes to school. There was also a day that I had two little tails and that stupid boy was only saying mean things about my hair.
I really hate that school year! And I was so happy when I came in a new class, the second year. But everytime when I see that one guy in school I'm scared and I'm looking to the other side from the way. I'm glad that I've some friends now and that I'm not bullied anymore, but it's something that I will never forget and I'm crying now, but I feel relieved that I had somewhere to write this.

If someone really has read this, thanks ^-^ That makes me happy. And my English is bad, but I don't know how to write this in an other way >.<

Ahw.. you know I think alot of people had to deal with this in highschool.. I used to get teased with nicknames alot and my skincolour (Because I was the only darkskinned guy in all of gymnasium).. And you know I had some well.. (''racist'' is a strong word, but you know what I mean) people in my class.. As I grew older they left me alone and I made awesome friends and hung out with almost everyone, from the coolest guys who went to the disco every week to the gothics and geeks nobody talked to.. And I noticed as you yourself stay a nice person, you will attract other nice persons around you and the bad people won't bother you as much or even go away.

And you're awesome trust me People with your kindness go a long way and when you get older it will show and reflect on other people around you )

It's mean if they call you names with your skincolour!

Thanks ^^ Normally, people don't say that I'm awesome. They always say that I'm a weirdo or a Japanese-freak O.o

;__________;
*hugs tighly*

Oh for the record; when you say panties, I assume you mean tights/stockings, not underwear? This may cause some confusion.
Anyway. That guy's a real jerk. This makes me want t hit him. >_<
HOW DARE THEY BULLY SUCH A SWEET AND AWESOME GIRL?!

That stupid translator xD It told me that it was panties! I'm going to change it.
You may hit him >.< He has also hit me one time under P.E.

I know what it's like trust me T_T
I had to drop out of high-school due to being bullied to the extreme... very extreme T_T


but like, I say try to ignore them, I know it's hard but you can do it.
You shouldn't change who you are because those low-lives don't like it.

They're not happy with themselves so they want to make others unhappy so that they feel better.

You should wear whatever you want to wear, who cares if it's bright colors? I personally ADORE bright colors <3 and if I went to your school and saw you, I'd probably try to be your friend because you're totally sweet and adorable. ^^ You are a great person, and don't let ANYONE tell you otherwise.

Aahw.. That's so sad

I'm bad at ignore someone and because I ignored him.. he started bullying >.<

I also like bright colours.. But now, I'm almost every day wearing a black shirt with a skinny.. Or a legging with a little dress thing -Don't know the English word- But! I've already bought a dressthingy with sparkling round things by my neck and everyone said that it was nice ^^ So, I've got some more selfconfidence =D

It's amazing how selfish and insensitive people can be. Sometimes I even experience that with my friends.
You should still wear bright colours, if that's what you like I think you should put a bit more faith into your fellow classmates - not everyone will bully you for something like wearing what you want
Well, in situations like this, I don't really ignore... well I can't really find the right word XD I guess just take it in and learn to be tougher and stick it out, and in the future you can look back and thank yourself because the more you try to be upset, the worse the situation will be :S
*hugs* good luck
(we have school uniforms, so I'm jealous XDDD)

Well I've always thought school uniforms were a good thing, because everyone's wearing the same, so no one can bully you about your clothes. And don't be mistaken, it happens A LOT. At least in the Netherlands. I don't know about other countries,but here, a lot of people simply refuse to accept you in you're not wearing the right things. It's like Class Society; Fashionable people who smother their faces with make up and stuff are Upper Class, People who dress plain, like jeans and shirt, often just to be safe from bullies, are Middle Class, and people who dress the way they like, things that aren't "fashionable" or things that are "alto", "emo" and things that stand out to much, are treated like garbage by a lot of people. In this, most of the time your personality doesn't even matter.

Well, there are also problems here even with uniform, so I guess no one wins Here, everyone is scruitinising about whether or not you wear t-bars or lace-ups (shoes... t-bars are 'cool' while laceups are 'manly'), the length of your skirt, how you do your hair, makeup etc. Also, since I go to a private school with rich girls... everyone is really thin, and really judgemental of that. And i realise how weird that sounds - since thin is meant to be seen as 'not enough to eat' and 'poor', but wow, the days have changed :S
Also fake tan. Tanning here is a big thing. It's quite gross actually :S I'm not saying I like pale better than tan, I just think people should stick with the skin colour they have!

They even have differences WITH uniforms? now from a sociological view I Have to say I did NOT expect that to happen, though it kind of makes sense..

magical_wishes wrote:

Well, there are also problems here even with uniform, so I guess no one wins Here, everyone is scruitinising about whether or not you wear t-bars or lace-ups (shoes... t-bars are 'cool' while laceups are 'manly'), the length of your skirt, how you do your hair, makeup etc. Also, since I go to a private school with rich girls... everyone is really thin, and really judgemental of that. And i realise how weird that sounds - since thin is meant to be seen as 'not enough to eat' and 'poor', but wow, the days have changed :S
Also fake tan. Tanning here is a big thing. It's quite gross actually :S I'm not saying I like pale better than tan, I just think people should stick with the skin colour they have!

O.o It's unbelievable! I guess people will always find something to bully each other about... It sucks. Good thing there are nice people tooo! 8D